Valentine’s Day Gifts for Each Stage of Your Relationship

By ASTROGLIDE Team Relationships

Whether you’ve been together for years or you are simply hooking up, we’ve got ideas for Valentine’s Day gifts for each stage of your relationship in this gift guide.

Booty Call Buddies

You get to do the no pants dance and there’s no threat of being forced to meet the parents on Valentine’s Day — it may just be the best of all possible worlds. Celebrate your purely sexual relationship by gifting your romping partner a box of sex toys you can use together.

If you’re pretty vanilla, opt for a simple sex gift like a silk blindfold, some fuzzy cuffs and sleek couple’s vibrator like the Lelo IDA. Add in a toy-friendly water-based lube like ASTROGLIDE Toy ‘n Joy for the perfect playtime present or sexy gift for this stage of your relationship.

Maybe you want to turn your friend with benefits into something more this Valentine’s Day. If so, a gift guide is not what you need. Instead check out our tips for turning Mr. Right Now into Mr. Right.

Deeply in “Like”

valentines day couple
You’ve been dating exclusively for a few months, but neither of you have dropped the big “L word”yet. You don’t want to give a gift that’s purely sexual on Valentine’s Day, but you aren’t exactly ready to buy a ring, either.

We recommend a weekend away, instead of focusing on sex gifts and sex toys. Why not spend a few days skiing and cozying up in a private cabin? Enjoy some sparkling wine in a hot tub and watch the sparks fly!

Remember — ASTROGLIDE X Silicone Gel is great for water play, so don’t forget to pack those waterproof sex toys for date night!

Love on Lockdown

You’re at the point in your relationship where you get invited to date night dinner parties as a couple and everyone you know views you as a single unit — which kind of makes you feel like some cool superhero duo.

You’re no longer worried about scaring your partner off with “adventurous” sex gifts, so take advantage of that security and get a little wild. Try a new twist on that jewelry gift by giving her this Incognito Droplet Necklace with built-in vibrating nipple clamps.

Or spring for something you can both enjoy and invest in a perennial favorite sex toy — the Hitachi Magic Wand. (After all, we’ve written about what women want in bed, but let’s be honest: they really want the Magic Wand as a sexy gift.)

Lifelong Lovebirds

When you’ve been together longer than you’ve been apart, passionate lovemaking sessions might be a rarity. Reconnect by choosing gifts that are more sensual than sexual — like a massage oil candle.

Not only will the candlelight set the mood, but once melted, the wax can be used as a soothing massage oil. This sex gift is perfect for pampering your partner and falling in love (and lust) all over again.

To us, that sounds like the definition of the best Valentine’s Day ever.

Still not quite sure if these Valentine’s Day gifts will hit the mark?

Then try this — think back to the gifts your partner has given you in the past. Their gifting strategy can tell you a lot about what they think is sexy and romantic, so try mimicking their giving style when choosing sex gifts. You can also try one of these 17 unique romantic gifts if you want more ideas on ways to spice up your relationships!

And before you head out to get your gift, help your fellow shoppers pick the perfect present and tell us in a tweet — what’s the best Valentine’s Day gift you ever received?

Even better — what was the worst?

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