Best Lube For Every Sex Position And Sexy Situation
By ASTROGLIDE Team
Personal Lubricant
We all know that age-old misconception that lube is to only be used if you have a problem like dryness, so let’s start out by agreeing to banish that thinking! Let’s say it together…LUBE MAKES SEX BETTER! No matter your age or gender, lube offers less friction, and smoother and wetter sex….which, as we all know that no matter the type of sex you like or sexual activities you’re into – wetter is always better!
Now that we got that out of our systems, let’s get down to business! 😉
Remember, there are several types of personal lubricant you can use for sexual activity, including:
● Water-based lubricant
● Silicone-based lubricant
● Oil-based lubricants
The Best Positions/Sexy Situations to Try with Water-Based Lubricants
In case you forgot, what’s great about water-based lubes is that they’re easy to clean up (and to wash out of clothing or sheets). And most of ASTROGLIDE’s water-based lubes can be used with condoms without compromising their integrity (meaning they won’t cause condoms to rip or tear more easily). They can also be used with toys like vibrators — even those made of silicone material.
With that in mind, here are the expert’s recommendations for positions to try with water-based lubes:
● Cowgirl and Reverse Cowgirl: When it’s time for cowgirl or reverse cowgirl, you will be fighting against gravity. That means you want a thicker lube that will stay in place during sexual intercourse but is still easy to clean out of your bedsheets later. A water-based gel lube is a perfect choice here and is generally one of the safest options for most couples. – Sex and Relationship Coach, Kayla Broek
● Missionary: This classic position can lead to a lot of friction throughout sexual intercourse as your pubic area rubs against your partner. Try using a thinner lubricant like ASTROGLIDE Liquid which is moisturizing and silky smooth. Don’t worry about a rug burn in your nether regions. A thinner water-based lubricant will provide an added layer of protection to your private parts. – Dr. Joshua Gonzalez, ASTROGLIDE’s Sexual Health Advisor
● Oral Sex: Although not a sex position per se, oral sex is an excellent precursor to sex and an integral part of foreplay. Nothing helps a couple feel more connected and enhances sexual arousal as much as oral sex! Water-based flavored lubricants are great for fellatio & blow jobs because they add a delicious flavor. The flavor stimulates the salivary glands, which make oral wetter and slicker (and feel better!). If a person is self-conscious about their body’s natural scent, flavored lubricants will add a sweetly scented overtone to the area to mask any unpleasant body odors. – Mayla Green, Sexologist & Director of Education for TheAdultToyShop.com
Dr. Josh also says when it comes to flavored water-based lube, “ Incorporating a flavored lubricant like ASTROGLIDE’s Strawberry Liquid can enhance your oral sex performance. Add a little sweet taste and smell to take the whole sexual experience to the next level.”
● Ring Rider and Reverse Ring Rider: Use a vibrating penis ring for this one and climb on top, being sure to add a few drops of ASTROGLIDE’s TOY ‘n JOY to the base and shaft. This toy-compatible lube will let you ride off into the sunset in whatever direction suits you. – Dr. Jess O’Reilly, ASTROGLIDE’s Resident Sexologist
● Toy Play: When you’re bringing any adult toys into the picture, you’re usually best off with a water-based lube. Many toys are made of silicone and plastic, which can gradually break down after coming in contact with silicone-based lubes. Water-based lubes are the safest to use with toys, and a gel will be the easiest to apply without getting it everywhere. – Sex and Relationship Coach, Kayla Broek
● Sex from Behind: When entering your partner from behind, you want a lubricant that won’t drip everywhere. One good option is a water-based gel such as ASTROGLIDE GEL. The thicker formulation will make less of a mess and allow for a super slick sexual experience. Like other water-based products, it won’t stain your sheets, which is an added bonus. – Dr. Joshua Gonzalez, ASTROGLIDE’s Sexual Health Advisor
The Best Positions/Sexy Situations to Try with Silicone-Based Lubricants
Dr. Angela Jones, OBGYN and ASTROGLIDE’s Resident Sexual Health Advisor, says this about silicone-based lubes, “I am a HUGE fan of the silicone-based lubes as I feel they give you the most bang for your buck in that you don’t have to constantly keep reapplying it; hence they allow you to be in it (pun intended) for the long haul.”
With that in mind, all our experts shared the shower is the place to be for using silicone-based lube. Here’s what they had to share:
● Relish in the water dripping down your bodies and tune into the movement, pressure, temperature, and texture for a more mindful sexual experience. Be sure to use silicone-based lube (like ASTROGLIDE X Silicone Gel) to stay slippery throughout the process. – Dr. Jess O’Reilly, ASTROGLIDE’s Resident Sexologist
● Silicone-based lubricants are super long-lasting, no-drip formulations that can allow for better motion in your ocean. A silicone based lubes thicker gel base won’t wash away as easily as other lubricants, so you can take your time and enjoy water play with your partner. – Dr. Joshua Gonzalez, ASTROGLIDE’s Sexual Health Advisor
● Without the right lube shower sex can quickly become uncomfortable for both partners. The water from the shower will wash away any of the body’s naturally occurring lubricants and most water-based lubes. A silicone-based lubricant will last much longer in the shower, and they are also safe to use with latex condoms. Silicone-based lubes are a bit more difficult to wash off than something water-based, but you’re already in the shower, which will make cleanup a breeze! – Sex and Relationship Coach, Kayla Broek
The Best Positions/Sexy Situations to Try with Oil-Based Lubricants
Oil-based lubes may be some of the best and most forgotten types, but If you’re looking for a seriously long-lasting lube with a luxurious silky feel (and has multiple uses, hello massages), oil-based lubes should be your go-to.
However, if you’re thinking about using an oil-based lube, you need to keep a few things in mind. First, oil-based lubricants aren’t safe to use with latex condoms. Oil-based lubes can make the latex porous or even cause it to rip and tear. This means that oil-based types of lubricants are better for those who do not need to use condoms. Another thing to consider is that oil-based lubes can also be hard to clean off toys and skin, so be prepared to do some extra clean-up afterward.
Now, some thoughts from the experts about oil-based lubes:
● Anal Sex: Because the anus does not lubricate on its own, you want to use a longer-lasting, thicker lubricant. Silicone or oil-based lubricants are a great option. – Dr. Joshua Gonzalez, ASTROGLIDE’s Sexual Health Advisor
● Full Body Slide: Slide your body over your lover’s as they lie face down on the bed. Slather yourselves in Astroglide O Personal Lubricant & Massage Oil and tune into every square inch of the full body contact. – Dr. Jess O’Reilly, ASTROGLIDE’s Resident Sexologist
So, the moral of the story here is that using a personal lubricant for sex and sexy situations such as blowjobs, clitoral stimulation or anal sex positions is ALWAYS going to make the situation more pleasurable. So if you haven’t jumped on the using-lube-for-sex bandwagon yet, do yourself and your partner a favor and get some, NOW. We promise you won’t regret it!
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