3 Ways to be a Gentleman on the Streets and a Freak in the Sheets

By ASTROGLIDE Team Dating Advice gentleman in the streets, freak in the sheets

Most women will tell you they want a gentleman…who can also get down in bed. Here is our best advice on being a gentleman on the streets and a freak in the sheets.

1. Keep your hygiene in check.

On the streets

You don’t need to look like you’re straight from the cover of GQ—perfectly coiffed and sporting a crisp new suit and tie. Being well-dressed and masculine doesn’t necessarily define a gentleman. However, you should be groomed and able to dress appropriately for any occasion. After all, being a gentleman is all in the way you carry yourself.

In the sheets

The same goes for your bedroom. Keep your place tidy and sheets fresh. Most importantly, practice good hygiene in all areas of your body. A healthy body is a sexy body.

2. Practice the right amount of control.

On the streets

It’s not always about you. Make it about your woman, too. While it’s natural to want sex, take the time to connect with her. In fact, you should be that way with everyone regardless of gender. Hold doors open. Say hello to the person next to you. Be a good listener during personal conversations. You can be forward with what you want from her but don’t push for it. Practice self-control.

In the sheets

Again, it’s not always about you. Let your partner take the reigns and listen to the ways she wants you to pleasure her. Once you’re in the groove, it’s all right to let go of that self-control a little.

3. Accept a woman for who she is.

On the streets

Let’s be honest, women want sex, too. She’s probably had as many partners as you, and that’s okay. It’s the 21st century, so accept and respect her sexuality without any judgment or assumptions, just as you expect her to accept yours. Some like to hold out while some want to hook up with no strings attached. Instead of thinking of sex as something you can win, think of it as something you can share.

In the sheets

Carry that same mentality in the sack. Embrace her body and be open to the things she may or may not be into, just as you would want from her. More importantly, communicating and compromising is the key to a more adventurous sex life.

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